The ability to set goals is very valuable in achieving success. Goals should be balanced in all areas of life — family, social, spiritual, business, health, wealth, education, etc. The major rules of goal-setting are:
“I can’t control my destiny, I trust my soul, my only goal is just to be. There’s only now, there’s only here. Give in to love or live in fear. No other path, no other way, no day but today.” –Unknown
“The universe is always speaking to us… Sending us little messages, causing coincidences and serendipities, reminding us to stop, to look around; to believe in something else, something more.” – Unknown
To forgive is to overlook, or rather look through. You look through the ego to the sanity that is in every human being as his or her essence.
Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom. The major value in life is not what you get. The major value in life is what you become. Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.
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Compliments and presents will never effect me the same way a genuine conversation about your fears will. It’s nice to be adored and flattered but it’s not meaningful. Going to the store to buy a dozen roses for $12.99 isn’t the same as telling someone how scared you were when your parents told you they were getting divorced. Telling someone they have a nice body isn’t the same as admitting you don’t really like your freckles or the the little dent in your chin. Being vulnerable is beautiful. Trying to look beautiful isn’t. I don’t understand how people can pretend to be so happy from all the superficial things in life when it’s the moments we can’t put into words or pictures that are the most wonderful.
(via foreverrwanderlust)
So so true.
(via yesdarlingido)
Being vulnerable is beautiful. Trying to look beautiful isn’t.
Don’t lose sleep over things you can’t improve or change. Focus your time and energy on what you have, and be thankful for it. – Derek Dunfee
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